"For People who are at Least Somewhat Desperate #2"
Selections from the Spinka Rebbe, Shlita, of Bnai Brak [A recent letter received by the Admor, Shlita, followed by his reply] The Question: I don’t understand what the Yosher Divrei Emes meant when he wrote that the worst thing, the great evil is to fall into depression and gloom. Then right after that, he continues and says that this state of mind comes about because of arrogance and a false, exaggerated sense of self. I cannot understand the connection between them. It seems that depression is the opposite of pride. Depressed people are broken people, not prideful people. The Spinka rebbe answers: Rav Asher Freund taught us that a person generally lives his 70 years with either excessive pride or despair. Despair comes as a result of excessive pride. If things don’t bring me happiness, enabling me to be prideful, then I find myself settling into despair. For example, when a person walks into a room full of people and someone...